I know you have just broken up with your ex and you are feeling so sad and depressed. You start to call your ex up but your ex just hangs up on you after a few words. I know you are feeling even worse if your ex is not returning your phone calls. But do not worry as I will teach you three simple methods to get it all started and moving and before you even realise, you are already on course to get your ex back again! So please commit to memory the three golden rules that I am going to teach you right now!
1. Create the time and space for yourself All along it has been just you and your ex. Now that your ex is gone (for the moment), I think it is also a good chance to be alone to rediscover your true self. Go out with your friends and socialise. After chatting with friends, more often than not, you will be feeling much more refreshed and relaxed and you will be able to look at things from more perspectives. At the same time, your ex will be very interested to know about you during this period when you two are apart.
2. No desperate measures If your ex never returns your call, then stop calling your ex for the moment. That is simply no use in calling your ex repeatedly if your ex chooses not to answer your calls. Desperate measures do not work at all. In addition, following up with tons of text messages is also a bane; your ex will probably treat it as spam messages and delete them straight away. So what is the rule then? Well, start with a message a day two weeks after the initial breakup. After your ex replies you, do not get too excited and calls your ex up straight away. Let us play the fishing game to catch the big fish!
3. Short and sweet conversations If you finally manage to strike a phone conversation with your ex, do not blow it by crying in desperation as opportunities usually do not knock twice on your door. Stay as calm and as composed as possible even if you are not. The basics of communication is first to get attention and then, get your message across to the other party. So your job at the beginning is to grab your ex attention by setting a cosy talking environment before even talking about business! If your first call conversation is successful, then the next one will naturally be your books!
Now ask yourself this – Do you want your ex back? Do you want to get your ex back? How are you going to get your ex back? After identifying the key issues, we can then proceed on to learn on how you can get your ex back. There are techniques that will guide you - step-by-step - on how you can get your ex back and if you follow the rules diligently, chances are that you will SUCCEED!! Uncover the experiences of someone who have gone through this before and his secrets in mending your relationships.
I strongly urge you to find out further in Guide to How to Get Your Ex Back as i will share with you some insights on trying to get your ex back!
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