I’ve heard it said that holding on to unforgiveness is like taking poison while hoping the other person will die. The truth is, unforgiveness punishes you far worse than the person who did you harm. Chances are they have gone on about their life, clueless to the fact that you are still suffering and full of anger.
Fortunately, or unfortunately, depending on how you look at it, I’ve lived long enough to become a real pro at forgiveness. I’ve been cheated, swindled, and stolen from to the tune of tens of millions of dollars. I’ve been beaten up, lied about, and put down, and yet I still decided it was in my own best interest to forgive. Why?
Because I discovered that I always came out ahead by forgiving…I always won!
I notice that the people who refuse to forgive are living in a PRISON of hurt, confusion, anger, pain, bitterness, and hate. It is not supposed to be that way! We were created to live free, full of hope, joy, freedom, creativity, and love.
I quickly discovered that people don’t forgive for a variety of reasons: some simply don’t want to let go of the hurt, others live with an incorrect definition of what forgiveness is and is not, some feel unworthy because of what happened to them, and others just don’t know how to go about the process of forgiving.
As I came to a better understanding of why people don’t always forgive, it motivated me to begin sending books, articles, paper clippings, tapes, and whatever I could find to my friends who needed the tremendous release that forgiveness can bring. By continually sending these helps periodically over time (spaced repetition), which is the secret to long-term change, I began to notice remarkable results.
Bringing Down the Walls of Unforgiveness
Little by little, as those I loved absorbed and listened to the information I sent their way, the walls of unforgiveness came down. People were set free! It was amazing! Incredible! Life changing! Whole families were affected and released, meaning entire generations will benefit.
I have found that every wall of unforgiveness can come down. Forgiveness is always stronger than its counterpart. Much stronger! But I’ll let you be the one to put that statement to the test. And I’ve devised a way you can do just that!
Because I’ve seen the tremendous life-changing results that forgiveness can bring, I’ve compiled an absolutely FREE 12-week “Forgiveness Training” program.
Twice a week for a full 12 weeks via email, you’ll receive the distilled points from my well-received book, Forgiveness—the Ultimate Miracle.
My “Forgiveness Training” Program includes:
What forgiveness is and is NOT
The benefits of forgiveness
10 practical steps to forgiveness
How to forgive others, God, and yourself
The effects of forgiveness on your self-image
How to once-and-for-all receive forgiveness
Why forgiveness can set you free
I do know this: You don’t have to stay stuck! You don’t have to continue to live in a prison of hurt and anger that is afflicting your mind, body, and spirit. By forgiving, you will not only benefit tremendously, but you will also be able to help others do the same!
Helping others reach their full potential is who I am and what I do. It is my life’s passion and purpose, and I want you to be the beneficiary. Are you ready to begin?
